Friday, 31 October 2014

My Bali Travel Tips

Having been to Indonesia a few times now and having been to many of the popular (and not so popular) destinations I get many questions from aspiring travellers for tips and recommendations when it comes to visiting Bali and the Gilis. A comprehensive travel guide book is still probably your best friend when planning your trip; the truth is that there is so much to see and so that it is impossible for me to answer everything in 5 quick minutes in a passing conversation, and thus I have tried to give MY (can’t stress this word enough) best tips when it comes to accommodation, locations, eating, drinking, prices, shopping, and travelling.

Bali can be intimidating at first. I remember how uncomfortable I felt when I first arrived (I stayed in Legian beach, located between Kuta and Seminyak), walking up and down the extremely hectic and sometimes labyrinth like streets, being harassed by the local shopkeepers and taxi drivers shouting “look in my shop, what you want, what you want” and “transport, transport” honking as they drove next to me. It can all be a bit overwhelming when you don’t have a clear destination in mind nor know where to go. Seminyak is a little calmer in this respect which is why I prefer it to Kuta and Legian. But those thoughts soon disappeared and Bali really got under my skin, in the good way. So much so that I can't stop going back; the smells of the incense in the air throughout the day, the wonderfully friendly people, and most importantly the incredibly tasty cuisine. 

Airport
Denpasar: Airlines will likely lose your luggage (especially if you had a layover in Jakarta) but airport staff are extremely efficient in delivering to your hotel, and hotel staff are usually very helpful in facilitating this by checking in with the airport staff on the ETA of your clean undies.

Taxi
From the airport go to the official taxi rank where prices are displayed up-front. The shady loclas who offer their services at arrivals tend to charge at least double. 

To Kuta: IDR 60,000-80,000
To Seminyak: IDR 80,000-100,000
Elsewhere: no clue, but like I said official taxi ranks are the most honest. Never hurts to ask the “unofficial” drivers or private transfer services for quotes, of course. This is especially true during low season when the latter options adjust their prices.

Kuta

In my opinion Kuta should be avoided at all costs. Picture Las Vegas meets Oxford Street in a developing country. It’s party heaven for 18 year old Australian surfers looking to have a “good time” but for me it’s honestly too many bright lights, too many drunken tourists, too many people, too much noise. Shopping also isn’t great unless you’re after the same-same-but-different tourist crap they sell in every country in SEA.

Seminyak

I’d live here if I could. Let me start with my favourite topic:

  • Shopping


You wouldn't expect it if you have never been to Bali before, but shopping here is better than probably anywhere I've seen before. Mostly hand-sewn and sometimes one-of-a-kind pieces of beautiful clothing. The fabrics range from cotton to the finest silk and softest leather you've ever put your hand on. I met two French women who said they come to shop in Bali for the couture as it’s of such fine quality it’s on par with what they find in Paris for a fraction of the price. One of them had just picked up a little black silk dress with sewn on sequence for under $250 – that’s less than you’d pay for a high street cocktail dress in any of the shops in London. So whe I say it’s inexpensive, don’t expect to pick up a silk dress for $10 but the price-quality for the couture is truly remarkable.

Look for shops on Jalan Oberoi and Jalan Raya Seminyak

  • Accommodation

Backpackers: 

Kayun: Jalan Patih Jelantik, Kuta, Badung, Bali 80361 (LEGIAN)
10 people dorms, girls and boys separate. Have a nice pool! Clean and affordable
M Hostel: jalan raya seminyak nomer 19, Seminyak (BETWEEN SEMINYAK AND LEGIAN)
Entrance through pharmacy (literally) next to Mario’s silver. Main entrance is through back streets. They also have private double rooms for approx. IDR 250,000: cheaper than 2 beds in a dorm. No pool. They have a common room with leather sofas, tv, dvd, computers. Clean and affordable. 3-6 people mixed dorms.
Guess House: Jln.Petitenget No: 22 Bali 80361 Indonesia., Seminyak (SEMINYAK)
Located in the Petitenget area you’re in the middle of luxury right here. Potato Head Beach Club is just down the road and lots of lovely restaurants and hotels are along this street and general area. Like with the other hostels, it’s clean and affordable. 10 people dorms mostly.

Upmarket

Bali Reski Asih Hotel
For upmarket accommodation no need to look further than Hotel Bali Reski Asih (Jalan Sari Dewi no 12)
It’s a boutique hotel, IDR 600,000 per night. Staff are incredibly helpful and in Seminyak in my opinion it’s the best value for money. They have a nice pool and a gorgeous garden; the rooms are fresh, clean, and decent sized. It’s on a small side street without much traffic and only a 5 minute walk away from Ku De Ta. Potato Head is a IDR 30,000 taxi ride away. The also organize free transport to Jimbaran, best seafood in Bali (a 1-1.5 hour ride).

http://www.balireskiasih.com/

  • Eating 


Gotta be my favourite topic. Imagine the nicest restaurant you’ve been to in, say, London. Now instead of paying £150 like you would in London imagine paying $30 for the same meal. That sums up the eating experience in Seminyak. That, and the fact that it’s 28 degrees and you have a light breeze on you face and a fabulous cocktail in your hand.
For a posh meal head to Chandi (officially address is 72 Jalan Laksmana (Kayu Aya) but everyone knows the street as Jalan Oberoi). Half way up from Seminyak square. Not only is their food top notch, but their cocktails are also some of the best I’ve had. http://www.chandibali.com/

For a slightly less celebrity-meets-porn-star dining experience go to pretty much any restaurant in Seminyak. The food is likely to impress you either way. Art CafĂ© is right next to Reski Asih and for IDR 60,000 you get the catch of the day prepared to perfection. Townhouse (also on Jalan Oberoi) do extremely good “upmarket” Western and Balinese/Indonesian food and they have a nightclub and a roof terrace for sundowners too. You’re again looking at a cost of less than $10 for your meal.
Warung Murah meal: $3

For the authentic experience go to Jalan Double Six, to a warung (Indonesian for restaurant) called Warung Murah. It’s popular amongst tourists and locals alike, and you’ll walk out with your stomach full for less than IDR 50,000, guaranteed.

At the bottom of Jalan Double Six, by the beach, take a right and walk along the beach to find about 10 beach bars with beanbag chairs laid out in front, and live music from sundown until about 10-11pm. Also generally very good food and price-quality; and guaranteed to give you that true holiday feel, sipping on your pina colada listening to a Bruno Mars cover, watching the sunset, feet in the sand, soft gentle breeze in your hair.

  • Drinking/ Nightlife – my favourite topic


Mantra Bar
Let’s start off with saying if it’s live music you’re into, then you won’t run out of options. Jalan Oberoi has at least 5-6 places with live entertainment each night and Mantra Bar (Jalan Petitenget 77x) is a good place for someone looking for a lively venue usually hosting a crowd between 25 and 45 years of age. Sit by the bar and you’ll quickly make new friends whilst enjoying the music. Ah! My favourite place!

Red Carpet Champagne Bar
The Red Carpet Champagne Bar
The Red Carpet Champagne Bar (also on Jalan Laksmana/Jalan Oberoi, a little further up from Chandi) has to be my favourite place. It’s probably the most fun and most ridiculous bar in Seminyak! 80s music videos playing on the TV screens, waiters and waitresses dressed in the most fancy dress like uniforms I’ve ever seen, and over 100 champagnes to choose from. The crowd tends to be a bit on the older side but never stopped me from “relighting my fire” in this fabulous bar!

The W (Woo bar)
Get in on the pornstar life style! I mean, need I say more than it’s the W? The driveway entrance in itself is impressive enough. Blend in with the rich and famous and enjoy a cocktail for less than what you would pay in London at any cocktail lounge. On Jalan Petitenget.

Hu’u Bar
My absolute favourite place. It’s a nightclub like no other in Seminyak – Not to be confused with Woo bar, the W Hotel’s cocktail bar! On the same street, Jalan Petitenget, this is a proper nightclub which gets busy around midnight. Don’t worry, no need to wait that long as they have a garden restaurant/lounge with a swimming pool, and it’s open all day! Not a cheap place, I’d bring a million or two IDRs for a proper night out, as a glass of Prosecco will set you back IDR 150.000. But the place will rock your socks off with very good Djs
Ku De Ta

Ku De Ta
Can’t go to Bali without doing sundowners at Ku De Ta. Right on the beach, enjoy famous DJs ease you into the night with soft tunes lounging on the beds sipping that Whiskey Sour.

Townhouse
As I mentioned before Townhouse is great for eating, but it is also a fabulous place (and not too pricy) to enjoy sundowners on the rooftop terrace. There are lounge chairs and sofas, and usually a DJ playing loungey (Ku De Ta style) tunes. At midnight the nightclub opens its doors for those looking for hit the dancefloor.

Potato Head
Potato Head
Hands down my absolute favourite thing about Bali – and my guilty pleasure! On Jalan Petitenget lies the gem of Seminyak. Get there early – at 11 am preferably when it opens – to guarantee a bed by the pool. Minimum consumption is a mere IDR 500.000 (less than USD50!) per bed. Work your way through the famous cocktail list and make sure you don’t miss Kookaburra – the best cocktail on the whole damn list. Kick back and enjoy the people watching. Swim up and make new friends in the pool bar – never a dull moment at Potato Head Beach Club. It turns into a Ku De Ta like loungy night club after sundowners.

Potato Head
The thing about Seminyak is that you can live like the rich and famous but for less than a normal day in London. Or you can soak in the culture and enjoy local cuisine and spend $15 a day; there’s something for everyone.



  • Getting around


Always get the price up-front when you take a taxi. The cabs are really inexpensive but they will try to rip you off if you look and act like a tourist. Seminyak-Kuta is between IDR50.000 (when no traffic) and 100.000 (during bad traffic). If one of the cab drivers refuses to take you for the price you offer to pay then ask the next one who is likely to be no more than 20 seconds away. For shorter distances within Seminyak try not to pay more than $2 or ask them to put the meter on.

If you are an experienced driver and/or have a great sense of adventure and/or are fearless, then rent a motorbike. The traffic in Kuta (and sometimes in Seminyak too) is HORRIBLE and you'll cough your lungs out in the exhaust fumes but irrefutably it is the best, easiest, and quickest way to get around. Plus you can park anywhere.

A lot is walking distances though, and obviously this gives the opportunity to look into the shops hehehe.

The Gili Islands


An absolute must if you’re travelling to Indonesia. Gili Air (my favourite place!) for me was like that fantasy place I only thought could exist in movies. The water around the islands is as clear as that in a pool, there is a constant warm breeze from the sea, and nothing beats swimming with turtles…! There’s no motorised traffic on any of the three Gilis so you can walk, cycle, or get a horse and carriage.


Gili Trawangan


Is the biggest of the 3 islands and known as the party island. For me, it’s too busy with the wrong people. So the same people who like to party it up in Kuta come to Gili T to do the same. Having said that, there are some very nice villas that can be rented on the more quiet side of the island.

Gili Air


It's no secret I think it's pure paradise. It has a more authentic island feel to it, with the bamboo structures and the elementary seafood barbecues on the beach. After a few days here you couldn't possibly be more relaxed! There is not much else to do but to read, chill, get massages, go for walks, and snorkel. The island is pretty much asleep by 9pm. During high season there are weekly all night parties (Zipp, Legend, Paradiso bars amongst others hosting them) but during low season the parties are usually limited to monthly ones.

  • Accommodation


Very basic rooms, Nina Cottages and inland village
During low season I wouldn’t book in advance just because you’ll end up paying high season prices. By going there without having booked a room you’ll be able to negotiate your price for the room, even at the nicer places. Having said that, during high season I also wouldn’t book in advance because the budget places where I like to stay don’t take advance bookings and even the nicer places have negotiable prices. For a very budget place go to Nina Cottages. Imagine the most basic room you can; honestly, a bed, a “shower” (read: garden hose), a toilet, and a fan…and now imagine it’s all old and run down; paint falling off the walls etc. That’s Nina. BUT: it’s clean and it will set you back IDR 100/200 K (low/high season) per night. The location is great. From the harbour go right past Zipp Bar, and take a left inland at Chillout bar and Sunrise Hotel. Nina Cottages will be to your right up the little alleyway.

Zipp Bar Bungalows
Zipp Bar Bunglaows are excellent, especially during low season as you can get the prices down probably to IDR 500,000-600,000. High season you’re looking at 700,000/ night. Really very nice bungalows, and location is excellent.

I got attacked by bedbugs in Gita Gili in July 2014 so depending on how long it’ll take them to get rid of them I probably wouldn’t risk staying there.

Villa Karang

For even more luxury stay at Villa Karang, 2 minutes left from the harbour. The double deluxe room will set you back about IDR 900K.

For the super budget traveler head into the village – but make sure you have a flashlight as the streets are very dark after sunset and it’s easy to get lost at night!!

The “main strip” refers to the bit comprising Paradiso Bar, Caballito, Scallywags (best & most upmarket restaurant on the island), Zipp Bar (very good value for money food and drink wise, and most happening at night) and a bit further up. The other side of the island is much quieter but also has plenty of good restaurants etc. Anywhere and everywhere is good for food and drink.

  • Snorkelling


Best to do it very early in the morning if you want to spot a turtle or two. In front of Paradiso Bar is where I saw most turtles. They come in to feed so 9am ish is a good time because at 11 boats from Trawangan start coming in for snorkelling and scare the turtles away. Snorkelling trips are also organised for IDR 100.000 and they’ll take you around the 3 islands to the best spots.

Gili Meno


Haven’t been

  • Tickets from Bali to the Gilis


Ah, the tricky part of getting to the Gilis. It’s very easy to end up overpaying so my advice is to ask in many places, the more the better. Ask at your hotel, and several other travel agents to get the best price. There are several different operators and you can buy the tickets from anywhere, Ubud, Seminyak, Lovina…and it includes a pick up from your hotel, transfer by bus to Padang Bai, fast boat to Gili Air/Trawangan (for Meno you get off at trawangan and get the local boat to Meno); and the same the other way. You can even book from Seminyak and have your return ticket to Ubud, for instance. If you buy a ticket from Padang Bai only for the fast boat you’re looking at about IDR 400-500K return and from Seminyak/Kuta/Ubud etc IDR 600-700K max. These are high season prices. If you don’t know ytour return date, get open return and 24-48 hours before return confirm at ticket office on the island you’re at.

Alternatively you can take the slow boat/ferry to Lombok and then the local boat from Lombok to the Gilis but....ppffff....I did it once and I don't think I'll be doing it again. Too slow, too much hassle...it doesn't even end up saving you that much money so I don't think it is worth it.

Rinjani Trek


Really recommend climbing Mount Rinjani; it’s a fantastic experience! You can book anywhere, and decide if you want to go to the rim (2 days 1 night) or all the way to the summit (3 days, 2 nights). To the rim doesn’t require an exceptional level of fitness or any special equipment, it’s quite easy in that sense. But going all the way to the top I’d recommend some mountain trekking experience. For the 2 days, I night cost expect to pay IDR 1-1.5m depending on the organiser. Make sure to book with a reputable one, Trip Advisor is good for this. 

Amed


What a great little discovery on my last trip!! A little coastal retro fishing village on the north-eastern coast of Bali, with black sand beaches. The town is just too cute for words and the best value for money after Ubud I’d say. Fresh seafood on the beach for IDR 30,000, fresh fruit juices for IDR 10,000 and fabulous beach side bungalows.

  • Acommodation


I stayed at Joli Homestay for IDR 150,000/night and it was like a 3 star hotel, stunning garden and very good, clean room. It’s not right on the beach (you have to cross the road and walk 2 mins). Really great and quiet place. You need to haggle prices for accommodation though; the guy originally asked me for IDR 300K. The beachside bungalows are stunning but some come with a price tag of IDR 1m. There’s plenty of bungalow-type accommodation for under IDR 400K/Night with luxuries like swimming pool etc.

Joli Homestay pics:



  • Getting around



Amed is very spread out along the coast. I recommend staying in the vicinity of Sama-Sama bungalows as on many nights there’s good live music in the reggae bar. I also recommend getting a scooter to move around. Traffic in Amed is really not bad, so even for first time drivers. Having a scooter also allows you to explore the area, drive to Tulamben to see (snorkel or dive) the famous shipwreck. There are fantastic spas at hotels if you drive up the mountain along the coast. Getting spa treatments in the outdoor treatment rooms overlooking the cliffs and the sea is a great experience. The one I recommend is Ocean SPA Aquaterrace (Selang Amed, address: Selang Bunutan Amed Karangasemv BALI, Phone +62-81-3379-11096).

The rice paddies around Tirtta Gangga are truly stunning too, whether it is for hiking purposes or driving around with your scooter :)

Ubud


Is like an explosion of culture, this little town is the perfect place for relaxation. It is so small many people go there with the intention of staying for 2 days thinking it will be enough to explore its wonders but end up being charmed into spending a week or longer, unable to leave the delightful village. Personally I think 3 days in Ubud is enough to see and do the main things, and that includes relaxing by the pool, getting massages, early nights, fantastic food, and an outdoorsy activity or two. I think what you get hooked on in Ubud the food which is probably the best in Bali, and the nice people who make you feel like you belong there! The hotels in the Ubud area are the best value for money I’ve ever come across.

  • Accommodation


A place that comes highly recommended but I’ve never stayed there myself is Beji Ubud Resort, apparently a little piece of heaven on earth.

Once I stayed at Rijasa Agung, and this is probably the best hotel I’ve ever stayed at. Your own hot tub on the balcony, infinity pool overlooking the mountains and luscious valley, peace and quietness…what more do you want? The food is not good, I’ll give you that, but the hotel in itself is just spectacular.  Another potential drawback is that it is a good 15 min drive from Ubud but you do get free transportation from the hotel and back.

http://www.rijasa.com/

Pictures from Rijasa Agung:




The homestays scattered all over Ubud (including the main streets) are a great experience too. They’re really good value for money as everything around this area, and it gfives you an authentic experience of what it’s like to stay with a Balinese family. You’ll have your own little bungalow and usually there’s a nice garden and even swimming pool if you’re lucky! Usually little domestic animals like cats, gogs, bunnies, and birds roaming free in the garden!

  • Activities


Cooking class: I used Lobong cooking class and it was a fabulous half day experience which started with going to the local market and learning about different foods and traditions. The highlight was the place itself where the class took place as the kitchen is open air, in the garden of the family compound. On Trip Advisor there are lots of cooking schools listed where you can choose from. http://lobongcooking.com/

Cycling tour around the rice paddies. Ubud is known for the stunning surroundings, the luscious forests and fluorescent green rice paddies. Taking a half day cycling tour gives you the chance to get some fresh air and see it all first hand, cycling through many local villages and take beautiful pictures.

Ask local travel agents for more fun activities in and around Ubud, there are lots! Like trekking to mount Agung for the sunrise and having your breakkie eggs fried on the rocks of an active volcano. 




Friday, 5 April 2013

The Last Post

Marina Bay Sands Resort
Ever since I found out I had to return to London sooner rather than later I have looked at life through very thick, negative glasses. Had I visited any of the last few cities before finding out I had to go back I think my enthusiasm and ability to highlight the nicer things would have been more apparent in my notes. But instead, I seem to lack the motivation to put any effort into enjoying the new places and very easily fail to find anything exciting. It's not that I don't enjoy myself, it's that I don't do so to the extent I would have if I knew I had lots more travelling left.

So with that in mind, this is my description of Singapore, my last stop before London: Singapore is a medium sized, modern, clean, western city; it's expensive, has great shopping and nice restaurants; it's hot and it's humid. Oh and Singapore's Chinatown is probably the nicest Chinatown I've ever been to. It's definitely the most organised and the cleanest I've seen, whilst somehow still preserving the Chinatown feel and character. I did some good shopping on my last day of travels; I figured, I no longer have to lug it around on my back so might as well load up! I'm so glad I found a few things I wanted already back when I was in Vietnam in December. I just hope Malaysian airlines are willing to look the other way when it comes to number of bags and weight allowance.


Despite the slightly gloomy mood I was in knowing I'd soon return to London I did have a very good time in Singapore. How could I not, with Marisol as my host, putting me up and taking me out and about? We did the Sling in Raffles and the going out for dim sum and the cooking at home with lots of vino on my last night. Not sure if it was the vino or my subconscious not wanting to leave so badly that I slept through my alarm. Luckily I had asked Marisol to put her alarm on too so I didn't miss my flight, only got a bit of a later start and half a heart attack, but I made it to the airport with plenty of time.

It was a fairly painless journey and I kept myself distracted with movies and didn't think much about anything, but when the captain announced we were landing in Heathrow I felt a pinch in my heart. It wasn't as much sadness about the trip coming to an end as nervousness about a combination of things like just going back, seeing everyone again, not having a job, having to take the most important exam of my life in less than a month which I hadn't even began studying for, and waiting to see if I would get into school. Actually I don't even think it was about "going back" but about starting something new, a new chapter in my life if you will.

Raffles Hotel, Long Bar
That concludes it, four months of - let's be honest here - flashpacking around Southeast Asia. It has been the most absolute amazing experience of my life, no words can do the experience justice.

Singapore Slings and Peanuts
Here's some numbers!
Number of hotels/hostels stayed in: 38
Number of countries visited: 9
Number of visits to the hospital : 2
Number of food poisonings: 1
Number of nights away: 122
Number of flights taken: 16
Number of boats / ferries taken: 31
Number of buses taken: about a million
Number of trains taken: 3
Number of pedicures had: 8
Number of massages had: 4
Number of photos taken: 5,247
Number of Pad Thais eaten: about the same as number of buses taken
Number of nationalities encountered: 39
Number of kilometres travelled: 40,810

The Hamper that was waiting for me at Heathrow with Lonkero, Knackebrod, red wine, three different kinds of cheeses, chorizo, jamon iberico, Singha beer, Tiger beer, Lakerol, Haribo, and Champagne! Thank you Pete :)

Thursday, 4 April 2013

Malaysia - Short but Sweet

Typical KL city shot
I wasn't particularly organised when I got to Malaysia. I hadn't checked visa requirements, asked for a landing card, found out what currency I should be using or what the exchange rate was, or found out anything at all about Kuala Lumpur or where I should stay. Furthermore, it turns out I had flown to the cargo airport where the only option I had for getting into town was an unlicensed cab.

So for anyone travelling to Malaysia - you don't need a visa, you don't need a landing card, £1 = 5 Ringgit, Reggae Mansion is where you want to stay and KL is just the right size to explore in a couple of days. And the airport you want is the Kuala Lumpur International Airport.

Reggae Mansion from the outside
Reggae Mansion
With no place to go I asked the driver to drop me off at Reggae Mansion, a hostel that had been recommended to me by several other travellers. All that needs to be said is that it has been voted as one of the top ten hostels in the world on TripAdvisor, and rightly so.




My bunk bed, about 3 metres above ground!
In my books, it's right up there with Banwa Art House in Puerto Princesa and Glur in Ao Nang. It's an old colonial building with high ceilings, an inner courtyard, a rooftop bar/club and the best privacy and security of all times. Each bunk bed had three walls and a curtain so you had your own space, and each dorm was behind two code-locked doors and 24 hour security so no outsiders could have possibly entered. Fantastic place to stay, highly recommend to anyone on a budget or not- they also have private rooms proper hotel style.

I had a great time in KL. In the beginning it was really weird to be in a big modern city after having lived the beach life for such a long time. It had been a while since I had been in a place where a sarong was not considered acceptable clothing. The highlight of my stay in Malaysia was of course meeting up with my parents who were on a little trip of their own with some friends in Burma and Malaysia.
The Petronas Towers

Together we did the sightseeing tour, the Petronas, the KL tower, and the walking around town. I have to say in my opinion KL is not a city where walking around exploring different neighborhoods is an enjoyable experience. Other than very few pretty and calm shopping streets right in the centre walking around can pretty much be summed up with intense, noisy four-lane traffic, high rise buildings, narrow pavements overshadowed by the monorail train running above your head. I usually enjoy exploring places on foot but not so much in KL.

Nightlife in KL is great! Again, it had been a while since I had been to a bar where the walls weren't made of bamboo and the floor covered in sand. And the best part was that all bars served free drinks all night every Thursday for all the ladies ;)









Hawkers market
A few days in KL was enough and so we moved on to Penang which I had been recommended simply because of the food. Penang is famous for its hawkers markets which are collections of street food stalls with seats in the middle. The idea is you go there with your friends and family and everyone can order from their chosen stall which is great because then you don't have to agree on any one type of food and everyone gets what they want! Arguably a little fast-foody but I loved this, for £1-5 you could eat your heart out of any cuisine in a fun and lively atmosphere. Why don't they have this concept in London?

Penang was nice but it wasn't remarkable in any particular way. I was hoping the night market we went to one evening that was a bit further away from Georgetown would have made a memorable story but seeing everyone recommended it and its kind of famous, but it was mostly fake Rolexes, Tiger beer tank tops and tshirts, and other cheap plastic crap. Not sure I'd recommend anyone to spend the whole hour it took us stuck in traffic to get there, if you really want to dress like white trash you can find these goods in any shop or market in Southeast Asia. Same same, and not so different.

The one thing I will say about Malaysia is how genuinely nice people are. They are truly interested in knowing where you are from, facts about your country, what you've seen and done in Malaysia; and what's more they want to make sure you enjoy your stay there and go home to tell everyone that its worth a visit. It makes a huge difference in the service you get in comparison to for example Thailand, where the motto is, like my friend Thess put it, "great food, crap service, OK music."
Sightseeing with mom :)

Buying my ticket home
I was meant to stay in Malaysia a lot longer and travel to many other places but unfortunately my time was running out. Not that I actually had a ticket home....I had checked the prices for flights to London about a million times but had failed to commit to pressing the send button. Somehow I just felt that as long as I don't have a ticket home it doesn't feel real that its all coming to an end. But I couldn't put it off any longer, the flights had gone up by £200, and I really really had to get back by the weekend - after all, I had organised a homecoming party and all. Would've been pretty funny if I didn't show up to it, and instead just kept travelling haha. Anyway, the time had come to stop the delaying. Even I couldn't procrastinate any longer, the flight would leave with or without me in four days time. So I did it. I bought the tickets. When I got the confirmation that my flights were booked and paid for I felt a little sting in my heart, like when you're doing something you know is the right thing to do but you don't want to do it.

Arrival time at Heathrow: 16:20, Thursday 4 April 2013

Waiting for the monorail to arrive
Kuala Lumpur. A little different from the beach feel I had gotten used to
We did a day trip to Batu Caves, a limestone hill which
has a series of caves and cave temples. 
Busy at work
Penang
Penang
It was my mom's birthday when we were in Penang :)


Thursday, 28 March 2013

Terima Kasih, Indonesia, You're My Number One

Sunset view from Potato Head Beach Club

How I had missed girly girl time! In the early afternoon I got to the hotel where Marisol and Maja were staying, dumped my bag and immediately thereafter scootered over to Potato Head Beach Club where the girls were spending the day. After having been on my own for quite some time and later in the company of two (most fun and entertaining) boys, being able to do the girly girl thing was beyond fun. Posh beach club, several servings of the best cocktail I have tasted in my life, and GIRL TALK! Handbags, boys, pedicures and lots and lots of giggles.

Potato Head Beach Club
My backpacking experience has been great among other reasons because it has been so diverse. I've gotten to do the simple budget thing sleeping with bedbugs and showering with salt water one day, and later that same day enjoy a cocktail by the pool in one of the finest beach clubs I've been to.




I can think of worse places to be. Potato Head's refreshingly tangy ‘Kookaburra,’ with lemongrass gin and homemade vanilla sugar ‘lovingly muddled’ with fresh mint leaves and lime and layered with passion-fruit and vanilla foam is hands down the best cocktail I have ever tasted..
As if our Potato Head day wasn't enough we spent the following day at an even nicer beach club (if that's even possible), down in Uluwatu. Nammos is as exclusive as they get yet still preserving the authenticity of a beach club, located on a secluded beach isolated by the surrounding sea and rocks so that the only way to get there is by descending some 50 metres in an elevator from the top of the cliff all the way down to the beach.

Descending in the elevator to Nammos Beach Club, Uluwatu, Bali
Beach babes!
I've been trying really hard to decide which I like best, the very basic and authentic island beach feel of say Gili Air, or the getting pamper on a beach bed served one cocktail after another without having to lift a finger; and I don't think I can decide between them! Probably it's the balance of the two. It's definitely not option three, standing in the cold dark London winter under an umbrella waiting for the bus dreaming about the former two options. It's starting to seem to me like anything is better than being back in London. Should be interesting to see how I'm going to adjust to life once I'm back, which won't be long now. I still don't have a ticket back, should probably look into that soon.

Nothing beats a lunch like this
Marisol left to go back to Singapore that day and Maja and I "moved in" with one of her friends Birgitta, who lives on the island. And what a house she has! I no longer need to wonder what my dream house would look like if I got to design it; she has it! Spread over three floors half of the house is open plan as if it was a part of the garden (or the garden part of the house) and the other half whilst having four walls, still has floor to ceiling windows which for me are always a winner. The ground floor is completely open on three sides so it gives the sensation that the kitchen and the living room are a part of the lush green garden. Beautifully furnished with simple and big bold furniture and flowers I couldn't imagine a nicer place to come home to and/ or entertain people. The two guest bedrooms had floor to ceiling windows almost replicating the feeling of the same openness as you could feel in the living room - but with the added benefit of aircon and perhaps a bit more privacy. The master bedroom was on the second floor and on the third floor her "office" or work space (she's a fashion designer). I have never seen anything like it. I want it. Apparently her neighbour is thinking about selling....time to start playing the lottery for real.

My dream home. I want it!!
Maja diligently taking notes
Birgitta's maid took such good care of us not even the best beach club we had visited had managed to be as attentive as she was. Her cooking was beyond five stars and she was a truly lovely person and fun to be with - on our last day she even gave us a cooking class.

Birgitta's driver Eddie took us on a day trip to a place that's off the beaten track and not mentioned in any Lonely Planet editions I'm sure, namely a graveyard where people are not buried but rather left to decompose out in the open. Located by a lake, it was a long drive from Seminyak; a good 2.5 hours each way but so worth it. We got to see a lot of the landscapes including more stunningly green rice paddies, and we got to see Bali prepare for one of their biggest ceremonies / holidays they have which is in the honour of their ancestors. Many people were decorating the streets and temples in their villages, building large offerings for this two day celebration that was starting the next day. We even saw countless pigs being "prepared" to be cooked for this festive occasion. It is impressive the amount of work that goes into these preparations, and it is impressive the amount of holidays and ceremonies they have throughout the year! Culture is at the heart of the Balinese way of living and it is very apparent everywhere you look.

Once we got to the village we chartered a boat to the graveyard which was on the other side of the lake. I wasn't sure what to expect to see, as Eddie hadn't really told us anything other than that we'd be going to a 'place where you see dead people.'

Maja and Eddie and the very special tree
As we stepped off the boat we walked through a gate that had human skulls placed on either side of it. It took me a while to comprehend that they were real - I suppose in our culture we don't tend to leave heads lying out in the open. Right ahead of us after passing through the gate was a huge tree (wish I could remember the name of it) and peculiar thing about this type of tree was that the people from this village say it is because of this tree that the corpses don't smell, that the tree soaks up the smell of the decaying flesh and therefore we can't smell it. Eddie explained the scientists claim it is the climate up by this volcanic lake that prevents the corpses from smelling, but when they tried to place some bodies further away from the trees they started to smell.

The graveyard wasn't big. The area covered approximately 40 square metres and consisted of a stack of human skulls carefully lined up on an altar like stone structure to the left of the big tree I just mentioned; six graves next to each other in a row in front of the skulls, and finally (and quite surprisingly) a huge pile of garbage next to the graves.

The first of the three that attracted my attention were the skulls. I was fascinated by them, I had never seen anything like it! Felt a little morbid taking pictures of them but I thought it was OK seeing others were doing it too. They didn't look real, it looked like they had been framed somehow because of the fact that I thought they looked rather beautiful (not that I'd like to have this altar as a garden deco). The skulls in the bottom row were almost entirely covered in dark green moss, almost the same colour as the stones they were resting on, and the top ones were clearly newer additions to the collection as they were in better shape than the ones in the middle or bottom rows.

The graves
I moved on to look at the graves themselves. Eddie told us the corpses had been placed there for approximately two months ago. This fact surprised me, I didn't realise how quickly the flesh disappeared - there were only skeletons left, hardly any flesh on the bodies. The bodies had been placed underneath a (not so sturdy) triangle shaped bamboo structure, and had clothes on. I glanced over at the pile of garbage and thought it was a little disrespectful and odd that they would out a dump site right next to their friends and relatives who were resting in peace here for eternity; but after having taken a closer look I realised it wasn't only ordinary trash like coca cola cans and plastic bags and the likes, but also human bones and clothes.
Pile of  'garbage.' 
So apparently what happens is that once the corpses are reduced to mere bone and they need more room for newcomers, the skulls are stacked in with the others at the altar next to the big tree, and the rest of the body along with the clothes are dumped in this pile of trash. Chucked out, just like that! And don't think the head is all that special either. Once the skulls break, due to wear and tear they're also thrown away in the pile. Guess that's one way of keeping a graveyard small. It is only this particular village in the whole of Indonesia that have this tradition. Others bury their dead in a way we're more used to calling "normal."

Fascinating and totally worth the drive!

     
On one of the nights Maja and I went for dinner at a Japanese jazz restaurant where apparently the expats as well as the locals like to socialise. Already before going the idea of the possibility of living in Bali one day had popped into my head, and after this night the attractiveness of that idea grew even stronger. I may be wrong but I it seemed to me that the expat community in Bali is very different to that I've seen in other places in Southeast Asia in that people do it for reasons that don't involve exploitation or sex. And the type of people are ones I think I could get along with just fine.....

Moving on to the highlight of my stay in Bali (or alternatively, probably the highlight of my life): python handbags. And python shoes. And python passport holders. And python wallets. And python bracelets. Anything python, really. In every colour. For every occasion. All at prices Primark couldn't even dream of beating! And it was all there, laid out in the shops waiting for me! Is a shame they weren't selling python backpacks because I'll tell you I might have purchased one and filled it up with all these pythony goods! With all my best intentions I was really only going to buy one bag, but instead ended up with a few different ones along with other items unable to only walk away with the one bag.

they're so pretty! and they're MINE!
Indonesia has officially become the number one country on my list of favourites. It has done so because of the friendliness and hospitality of its people, the fascinating and deep-rooted culture and traditions, the culinary marvel that is each eating experience, the diverse and breathtaking landscapes, and last but not least - the shopping of course.

I wouldn't be surprised if be day I end up relocating to Indonesia. But for now, it was time to see what Kuala Lumpur was all about.